I usually go by the quote that ,
' IF ONE LOVES ANOTHER, ONE SHOULD KNOW HOW TO TREAT THE OTHER'
But anyways,
Here's my perspective on the Do's and Don'ts in a relationship !
DO !
1) Give each other space
Girls : Give your guys space; like gaming or bro times . They really just wanna chill with their bros once in awhile. Its not like they're flirting with other girls at that moment. So, just chill :)
Guys : Give your girls space a little, but generally most girls don't quite enjoy too much space. But if you don't give them space that they need ( not like they want it ) , they're gonna be too dependent on you and in the long run, that ain't good . Do show you care guys !
Both Girls & Guys : Space is necessary for a healthy relationship ! For both of you to grow
2) Trust
Girls : Trust your guys, but not a 100%. Just trust them enough not to appear clingy or bother them with infinity questions on every girl they talk to. If he cheats on you, that's his lost. Don't try to work things out with a guy who doesn't know how to treat you right.
Guys : Trust your girls ? Hahaha I really don't know much about this. Most girls like it when guys get a little jealous but too much can be nuisance I guess. Show like you care atleast, no matter who she goes out with .
3) Talk with each other, Communicate !
Both Guys & Girls : Seriously people, you guys just have to stop fighting too much in relationships ! Negotiate, talk about things. There is no necessity to ask for a break up after every single fight. Discuss what you guys want , likes and dislikes , and try to work things out from there. Pretty sure you guys can work things out together. Don't just expect one to understand another without even telling each other what's wrong.
4) Respect
There's just really not much to say about this. I dont find the necessity for anyone to be taught on why they should respect each other. Hahaha.
5) Apologize
Apologize to each other for every small mistake. But then again, don't apologize too much cause it can seriously get annoying.
DON'Ts !
1) Have a third person in a relationship
Both Guys & Girls : A relationship is between just the 2 of you. You don't need another person to be in between trying to solve any problems you guys are facing. Just try your best to stick to just the both of you
2) Throw yourself in the relationship too much
Girls : Most of my girlfriends tend to throw themselves into the relationships too much and end up regretting it. Save yourself some dignity cause there is no assurance that the guy you're currently dating is your 'happily ever after'
3) Expect it to be one sided
Girls & Guys : The thing that somehow sucks about relationships is that you have to negotiate. That's why some people enjoy being single more ! But yeah, negotiate with one another. Give and take :)
4) It's not a Disney Channel Movie or a Romance Movie
Girls : Seriously do not expect a freaking happily ever after like the disney movies. Real relationships are just not like that. Stop day dreaming on the Prince Charming and get back to reality.
5) Expect too much from each other
Girls & Guys : Expecting too much from each other can hurt one another. It can also make your head pretty bothered thinking about each other's expectation so frequently. Just hope the best for each other, and really, stop giving indirect messages or indirect expectations
6) Fight on social media
DON'T . Just don't !
7) Give up trying
Never give up trying to work things out together. But if ever tonnes of trials, and it doesn't work out, I guess it's just not meant to be then .
Nevertheless, if you're single now, enjoy it !
You'd get to spend more time to work on yourself rather than a relationship or each other :)
When the time comes, the time comes.
Put your head back, chill and get high on life !
No comments:
Post a Comment