Fear of Falling in Love,

"I fear of falling in love. No, the heart ache if it doesn't work out does not fear me. People will always get hurt, doesn't matter if you're in or not in a relationship. I fear that when I fall inlove, I would lose myself. My own identity. What defines me. I fear that I place my time and effort too much on that one person when I could've spared my love for others who deprive of love more. I fear that when I fall inlove, I would fall out of my family and friends. I fear that I might actually be more inlove with the idea of being in a relationship rather than loving the person for who he is. Worst of all, I fear that in the end of the day, I won't even be able to define what love is"